There is a curious paradox which no one can explain.
Who understands the secret of the reaping of the grain?
Who understands why spring is born out of winter's laboring pain
Or why we must all die a bit before we can grow again?
-The Fantasticks

The pain of childbirth is legendary. All our lives we have been impressed with clenching, frightening stories of women in labor, incoherent with unrelenting pain. These images are primarily myth. Unfortunately, centuries of bad press have led to a pervasive fear of this most powerful, even fierce, natural resource of womankind.

We all want to do what is most humane and healthy for women and babies. That labor is painful for most women is true. Yet, most of the time, women are capable of coping with the pain. In the U.S., the rate of epidural anesthesia, in which most or all sensation of labor is numbed, is approaching 80%. Does it make sense to alter or remove pain from the experience of most women because of the extreme pain of a few?



The day that your baby arrives is, quite simply, one of the most important days of your life! Value your babyʼs birth by investing yourself in it -- your time, your thought, and your finances. It is totally possible to have a wonderful, glorious birth in any setting you might choose. You deserve the best possible birth -- the best birth you can create -- not just the birth that appears to be good enough for your insurance company or the right one for others around you.

Unfortunately, if you go into your experience simply turning yourself over to the authorities who are in charge, all too often you will receive a series of interventions that might not be truly necessary for your or your babyʼs well-being, and that can actually create negative or harmful conditions. Instead of passively accepting anything that is suggested to you ---->>>>

I strongly recommend that you do these three things in order to have the best possible chance that you will have the birth you want, no matter which setting you choose.


Scores of studies undertaken over the last 40 years have demonstrated the safety of healthy women giving birth at home when a skilled attendant is present. There has never been any valid research that indicates that the safest place for all birth is a hospital. THERE IS NO COMPROMISE IN SAFETY AT HOME! Neonatal mortality is the same in both settings. Birth at home can be seen as healthier than hospital, because there
are: fewer interventions and disturbances of the personal rhythm of birth; fewer cesareans,infections, instrument deliveries, birth injuries, hemorrhages, episiotomies; fewer separations of mother and baby (leading to higher rates of breastfeeding).


Most of us feel that our homes are our sanctuaries, our havens. We tend to feel most comfortable, uninhibited, protected and secure in our own territories, surrounded by our loved ones. Hospitals are alien environments for most people, reminiscent of illness and death. When you are stressed, preoccupied, and in need of paying the closest possible attention to yourself in order to accomplish a highly important task, would you feel better and more focused when you walk in the door of a hospital, or of your own home?


When preparing for a birth at home, you know that the people who will support you are your guests - familiar loved ones and invited professional attendants who have been working with you throughout your pregnancy. You can direct the environment where you envision greeting your new baby. At home, each woman can control the sights, sounds, smells, textures, touch, and tastes that will buoy her as she moves through labor. She will play a fully informed part in all aspects of her care, which will be individualized and mother/baby-centered.


The inherent intimacy and sacredness of this miraculous event are respected as private, integral parts of family life. When birth is at home, in the same setting in which the day-to-day rituals of life inform and renew us as closest kin, family is unified and strengthened. When children are present they are gently held by their familiar people, structures, and routines, producing security and confidence instead of fear, thus normalizing the arrival of their sibling. Many observers believe that there is less postpartum depression following homebirth.


The cost of birth at home is considerably less than birth in hospital. Many insurance companies will reimburse for homebirth. Unfortunately, however, some insurance companies and plans will not pay for homebirth, making the out-of-pocket costs for homebirth families more expensive. It is time for consumers to demand this cost-effective option from their insurance providers. By one estimate, if 75% of births were in the hands of midwives, the US health care bill would decrease $8.5 billion per year! It would decrease even more if homebirth were encouraged.